Sunday, March 25, 2012

Confirming even when we disagree

I do not find it difficult to confirm others because I have grown up with friends who practice different religions, prefer different types of foods than I do, and/or are culturally different; and I have had to learn from early on that in order to protect the feelings of those I care about I have to maintain an open mind, even (most importantly) when I do not necessarily agree or absolutely disagree with their views and actions. Confirming others demonstrates our ability to be considerate, thoughtful, and understanding. We should always confirm others by demonstrating that their cares are valid and worth our time, but we do not have to endorse their ideas or perspectives. Caring about someone does not mean that we have to deny our ideas and perspectives and adopt theirs. It means that we care enough about them to discuss their opposing ideas and perspectives in a non-judgmental environment despite our own different beliefs.

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